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In order to get what you want, you must first decide what you want.
Most people really foul up at this crucial first step
because they simply can’t see how it’s possible to get what they want —
so they don’t even let themselves want it.
What scientists now know about how the brain works is
that you must first decide the 'WHAT' before your brain can figure out
the 'HOW'.
Once you lock-in your desires, your mind and the universe can step in.
Are you ready to get started?
STEP 1: Decide to Dream BIG and Be Willing to Dream BIG Dreams Big
dreams not only inspire you, but they also compel others to want to
play big, too. Don’t think you should only dream big during economic
heydays. Dream big every day, especially during tough times.
As soon as you commit to a big dream and really go
after it, your subconscious creative mind will come up with big ideas
to make it happen. You’ll start attracting the people, resources, and
opportunities you need into your life to make your dreams come true.
STEP 2: Set Goals That Will Stretch You
Another
value in giving yourself permission to go after the big dreams is that
big dreams require you to grow in order to achieve them. In fact, in
the long run, this is the greatest benefit you will receive from
pursuing your dreams — not so much the outer trappings of fulfilling
the dream (an expensive car, impressive house, loads of money and
philanthropic opportunities), but who you become in the process.
As I’ve seen many times over, the outer symbols of
success can all be easily lost. Houses burn down, companies go
bankrupt, relationships end, cars get old, bodies age and fame wanes,
but who you are, what you have learned, and the new skills you have
developed never go away. These are the true prizes of success.
STEP 3: Service to Others As you
pinpoint what you want to go after, think about how you can be of
service to others. When your dreams include this element, you’ll find
yourself speeding along the path to accomplishing that goal. People
want to be part of something that makes a difference.
STEP 4: Turn Your Dreams into Goals and Objectives Once
you are clear about what you want, you must turn each item into a
measurable goal. By measurable, I mean measurable in space and time,
how much and by when. Don’t just say that you want to lose weight, for
instance. Be specific, push yourself to higher limits, and set dates.
Say something like, “I want to lose 50 pounds by summer and participate
in my community’s 10K for charity by the 4th of July.”
Similarly, your boss, your friends, your spouse, your
brain — God, the Universe — can’t figure out what you want unless you
specifically tell them what it is.
What do you want — exactly — and when do you want it by?
Step 5: Write Your Goals Down Write
your goals down in detail, and read your list of goals every day. This
will keep your subconscious mind focused on what you want. For an even
more powerful approach, close your eyes and focus on each goal and ask
yourself, "What is one thing I could do today to move toward the
achievement of this goal?" Write down your answers and take those
actions.
I recommend writing down a minimum of 3 goals in each of the following 7 areas:
1. Financial Goals 2. Career/Business Goals 3. Free Time/Family Time 4. Health/Appearance Goals 5. Relationship Goals 6. Personal Growth 7. Making a Difference/Contribution
If you want help getting started, I have some handy worksheets and even more guidance for you that models this formula, including examples. Click here to access this FREE Audio Training and Action Guide to start creating all that you deserve in your life!
© 2010 Jack Canfield
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